Albuquerque Divorce Lawyer Blog

Sadly, there are often times when neither of a child's parents is able to care for the child. In such cases, a third-party, who may or may not be a family member, may petition the Court for child custody of the Child. In New Mexico, there are five different ways in which a third-party child custody may be awarded.

The first three ways by which a third-party may gain child custody over a child are pretty straightforward. First, the court may grant child custody to a third-party as part of a divorce proceeding if the court determines that neither parent is capable of caring for the child and the third-party properly intervenes in that divorce proceeding. Second, under the probate code, the court may grant custody to a third-party when the child's parent or guardian dies. Third, the court may grant custody to a third-party as the result of finding of abuse and neglect by the child's parents or current guardian. Abuse and neglect proceedings are generally initiated by the Department of Children Youth and Families, but they can be initiated by the third-party seeking custody.

Fourth, the third-party seeking custody can file a petition under the Kinship Guardianship Act, which typically applies when a child has lived with the third-party for more than ninety (90) days prior to the filing of a petition. However, custody can also be granted under the Kinship Guardianship Act even if the child hasn't lived with the third-party for ninety (90) days, if the child's parents are unwilling or unable to care for the child and there are extraordinary circumstances. In fact, a third-party can be granted custody of a child is when extraordinary circumstances exist, even without a Kinship Guardianship petition, and there is no other remedy available under the law, which is the fifth way for a third-party to obtain custody.

In all of the situations referenced above, the court will only grant custody to a third-party if that custody award is in the child's best interest. The person seeking custody will often have the burden of proving to the court that they are the best person to care for a child, which can be a very complicated process. Thus, it is very important for a person seeking custody to consult an attorney before undertaking such an action.

Sarah Armstrong
Albuquerque Attorney
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When the parents cannot agree on a child custody time-sharing arrangement between themselves, there are court resources available to help assist them in establishing a parenting plan. For contested child custody cases in Albuquerque, the parties will generally be referred to Second Judicial District Court Family Court Clinic. The courts in Santa Fe, Rio Rancho, and many other judicial districts across New Mexico have similar court-sponsored family court programs that are the first step in determination of a parenting plan.

Upon referral to Court Clinic or other family court services, the parties still have control over their case. The first step in the process is non-binding mediation. Child custody and time-sharing mediation brings the parties together with a professional mediator with the goal of reaching an agreement acceptable to both parties. It is a non-binding process meaning that the parties do not have to reach an agreement. They can choose to move forward with the Court Clinic process.

When mediation doesn't lead to an agreement, the Court may then order a full child custody evaluation through Court Clinic. A custody evaluation through Court Clinic involves trained mental health and custody professionals who meet with the parents, the child and any other important people in the child's life including teachers, doctors, counselors, coaches and others to assist with the custody evaluation.

The information gathered from interviews, psychological testing and any other available sources will be used to produce a list of Court Clinic recommendations for custody. The objective is to provide for the best interests of the child/children. The great majority of the time, the Court will adopt the recommendations of Court Clinic. However, either party may dispute the recommendations, which then requires that party to hire a private custody expert, referred to as a 706 Expert. This then raises a whole new set of issues.

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Relocation of one of the parents often has significant consequences for child custody and timesharing. In fact, it may result in a loss of time-sharing so it is not always an option. This is particularly so where there is an existing Parenting Plan that prohibits such a move as most parenting plans do.

Relocation of a parent outside of New Mexico, or even within New Mexico, can be a very difficult situation for parents who may have to choose between job or family obligations and being close to their child. It can be an even more difficult situation for a child who is faced with leaving their school and their friends and the possibility of seeing one parent much less frequently than they did before the move.

Both the federal and state constitutions protect the right of citizens to travel and move freely about the county, but while a parent has the right to move, they do not necessarily have the right to take their child with them. Where there is an existing parenting plan setting forth custody and timesharing, a parent who wants to move must file a motion for a modification of their parenting plan and timesharing agreement as soon as they know they will be moving.

If the parents have split, but have never established a formal parenting plan, it is a good idea to get a parenting plan entered by the court prior to moving. In cases where there is no parenting plan, the parent who is not relocating would be very wise to file a Motion with a Temporary Domestic Order to prevent the other parent from taking the child out of state and thereby escaping New Mexico jurisdiction over child custody and timesharing.

When a parent must move suddenly, they should still file a motion to modify timesharing before they leave and either travel back for the hearing or ask the court if they can appear at the hearing via telephone. The relocating parent should be prepared for a long and frustrating process. He or she should also understand that the Court may not look favorably on the relocation for purposes of establishing child custody and timesharing no matter what the reason for the move.

As with all custody decisions, the court's primary consideration in evaluating a modification of a parenting plan to accommodate a parent's move is the "best interests" of the child or children involved. If one parent has sole legal and physical custody, then the court will most likely find that it is in the best interest of a child to remain with that parent. In a situation where the parents share custody, but one parent wants to move with the child, the court will have to determine whether it is in the best interests of the child to stay in New Mexico or to leave with the relocating parent.

That determination rests heavily on the parent's reason for moving and how much of a disruption the move will cause for the child. The court will consider all of the child's circumstances such as family bonds, friendships, schools, sports, extracurricular activities among other issues. Most importantly, the court will look to see how the move will affect the child's relationship with the other parent. The court will almost always deny a parent's request to move with the child if that request is made as a bad faith attempt to prevent contact between the child and the other parent. As with all cases of contested custody and timesharing, if the change in the parenting plan is contested, the case will be referred to family court clinic for a full custody evaluation. This can take months and it rarely moves faster for the convenience of either party.

If a court does grant one parent the right to move with the child, the court will need to devise a new visitation schedule that accommodates the new distance between a child and parents. This can be expensive as parents will now need to pay for travel costs to facilitate visitation and can be very difficult when a child is too young to travel alone. The constraints of time, distance and a child's school schedule are only a few of the factors to be considered when one parent wants to move, which is why it is important that each parent consult a New Mexico divorce and family law attorney if they are faced with such a potential change to custody and timesharing.

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